Friday, November 15, 2024

Warriors and Survivors -187

Children Cancer Stories by Rukh Yusuf - Blog # 187


I am Rukh Yusuf, Clinical Pharmacist, also specialized in Total Parenteral Nutrition and Bone Marrow Transplant. I have been working in the Pediatric Oncology unit of a public hospital for several years. The mission of this blog is to bring to you the real-life stories of child patients suffering from cancer. Cancer is still a difficult disease to handle and treat. However, when it strikes the children, some so young that they cannot even speak, their agony is beyond expression and words. Let us pray especially for children suffering from cancer for early and complete remission. May Allah shower His Merciful Blessings upon them. Aameen. 




Life has a way of throwing challenges at us when we least expect them. For 12-year-old Jamal and his family, the challenge came as a diagnosis that no one wants to hear: Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML). This is Jamal's story—a story of bravery, family, and the road to healing.

It was a regular Tuesday when Jamal first complained of feeling tired and achy. His mother thought he might just be coming down with the flu. However, when the symptoms continued for weeks—resulting in occasional bruises and frequent nosebleeds—she decided it was time to see a doctor. After a series of blood tests and a trip to the hospital, the chilling words "acute myeloid leukemia" echoed in their ears.

For Parents, it felt like the world had stopped. How would they cope? Their son was only 12 years old, and the thought that he had cancer was unfathomable. They educated themselves about AML, learning that children with this type of cancer often face a tough fight, and the road ahead would be long and challenging.

After discussing treatment options with the doctors, the family agreed on a plan. Jamal would start chemotherapy immediately. The very thought of her son undergoing such intense treatment broke mother’s heart. She held back tears, trying to keep a brave face for Jamal. Together, they packed a bag for his hospital stay, making sure to include his favorite comic books and a stuffed bear for comfort.

As the weeks went by, the reality set in. Jamal experienced various side effects—nausea, hair loss, and fatigue. Yet, through it all, he maintained a positive attitude. He often smiled and joked, saying, “At least I get free ice cream from the hospital!” While those around him felt anxious, Jamal made it a little easier for everyone by focusing on the small joys.

Jamal’s illness affected the entire family. His parents often found themselves overwhelmed by hospital visits, treatment schedules, and the emotional toll. Mother had to take a leave of absence from work, leaving finances tight. They were fortunate to have some support from relatives, but there were days when the stress felt unmanageable.

His father would take shifts at the hospital, trying to balance work commitments with being there for his son. “Every day is a new challenge,” he confessed. “But we have to stay strong for Jamal.” They learned to lean on each other, finding strength in their love and dedication to their son.

Every few weeks, the family returned to the hospital for checkups and more treatment. They had begun to understand the medical jargon and routines, but uncertainties still prevailed. There were discussions about blood counts, remissions, and what would happen if the treatment didn’t work as planned.

Jamal faced each hospital visit with peace, even when things were tough. He wore colorful hats to cover his bald head and made friends with other young patients. Despite the grim circumstances, they managed to share laughs, stories, and, at times, tears.

The family also learned to find joy in small moments. Family game nights became a tradition, even if it was just with cards at the hospital. Mother started a journal to document their experiences, both the good and the difficult, and she encouraged Jamal to share his thoughts and feelings.

As of today, Jamal is still undergoing treatment, but he remains hopeful. The road ahead is long, and he knows AML is a tough opponent. However, Jamal has proven to be a fighter. He dreams of going back to school, playing basketball with his friends, and living life to the fullest.

As Jamal continues to fight his battle, his story serves as an inspiration—a heartfelt reminder that, with courage, hope, and the support of family, one can face even the greatest challenges.

Lots of prayers for young Jamal and his family, may Allah make their future easy. Aameen

Lots of prayers for all sick children to recover quickly and never experience their illnesses again. May they lead happy and healthy lives once more. Aameen.


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